Saturday, May 21, 2011

Topical Essay #1 What Challenges do Anthropologists Face? (Late Pass)

Anthropologists have many challenges that they have to face while studying and evaluating different kinds of society. People say that anthropologist should keep an open mind and try to be understanding and non judgmental about other cultures. This is called Cultural Relativism. Understanding the ways of another’s culture and not judging their practices according to one’s own culture. ON the other hand sometimes anthropologists have challenges that they sometimes have to over come when it comes to understanding another’s culture. Some times they will analyze other people and their culture by their own standards and beliefs. This is called Ethnocentrism. So your judging people about what is “right” or “wrong” in their culture by what is “right” or “wrong” in your own. There were two anthropologists that ran into this problem of ethnocentrism while they were studying among the Bushman tribes in Africa.

Before one of the anthropologists left for Africa his friend gave him the book Hamlet, and told him that he should read it and try to understand it better because the people of America had difficulty with Shakespeare. But the anthropologist disagreed because he believed that the human nature all around the world is pretty much the same. So as long as you have the general plot and motivation everything is pretty clear. This however was not exactly the case when trying to tell the story of Hamlet to the Bushman tribe. They practically contradicted everything he said about any part of the story. For example when Hamlets father came back as a ghost to tell Hamlet that his brother had killed him, the Bushman however did not agree with this statement. They thought that the anthropologist was crazy because in the Bushman culture, they do not believe in ghosts, so they believed that it could only be an omen that was sent by a witch. They also believed that an omen is a matter for chiefs and elders to deal with not young boys and others. There were however a few things that the Bushman did agree with. When the anthropologist told them how the younger brother took over as chief and married the old chiefs wife the bushman said the brother did well. For it was the same in the Bushman custom that when the brother dies one of the other brothers marries his wife and becomes the father of his children. One of the Bushman even said that they knew if they found out more about the European cultures they would be very much the same as their own. For the rest of the story however the Bushman understood the story differently then how the anthropologist wanted them to understand it. In this case both the Bushman and the Anthropologist were being ethnocentric.

The other anthropologist ran into a slightly similar situation. As his last Christmas there he wanted to buy that cow that they have for the annual feast. Knowing that the Bushman tribe had little food because they had little money to buy food and because they had to hunt for it, he wanted to find the biggest and fattest cow there was. When he thought he found it he bought it without asking any of the bushman for their opinion on it. A few weeks before the feast the people in the tribe discovered that he had bought the cow for the feast but teased him when they found out which cow he bought. They said that he had made an awful choice and that it was the skinniest cow of all. This really confused the anthropologist and he thought that they were crazy because it was the fattest cow out there. So he tried to find another cow but couldn’t. When it came to the feast they cut open the cow and it was amazing how much meat there was and how delicious it was. The anthropologist said, “see I told you it had plenty of fat on it!” and all the bushman started laugh to the he thought it was just a joke. But he was confused by it and questioned why they would do that kind of a joke when he was giving them food. He later found out that it was part of their culture to talk down on others accomplishments, only to keep them humble and equal as a people. So because the anthropologist had not really tried to understand their culture from their point of view he thought they were being unkind and ungrateful, when really they were trying to help him.

I think that people everywhere have a difficult time understanding one another not just anthropologists. Its difficult to stay open minded to another’s idea and thought because we often put ourselves up as being better and knowing more than them. But if we try to understand and be open minded to other people and their culture and what they think is best, and respect that we will better be able to communicate and even appreciate one another.

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Topical Essay #2 What does dating and marriage look like in my culture

Living in Utah and being a Mormon, dating and marriage looks a little different then it would to other cultures and maybe out side of Utah. Most of my views on dating and marriage are the same as my parents and are similar to most of the people around me. My views on dating are similar to the views of my religion. I don’t go on any dates until I am at the age of 16. I think that this is a good stage for everyone in my opinion because you’re usually mature enough to act like an adult and handle some of the drama and stress that might come with dating. I think that when you go on dates that you should start out by just going on group dates until your actually looking about getting serious with someone. I think it just makes it safer and even more fun at times to group date, especially while in high school. A good date for me would be doing something where you would be able to talk to your date and find out a little more about them. Over dinner is usually a great time to talk, and then doing an activity. Going to a movie for a date I think is kind of boring, unless the movie is at someone’s house because then you can talk and interrupt as much as you want. In my opinion you also shouldn’t steady date in high school. Dating the same person over and over again kind of loses the purpose of dating, especially in high school. I mean dating is so that you can find out what kind of people you like to be around and want to be with. When your only getting to know one person you don’t find out what everybody else is like and if you might like that type of person better. The time I think that people should start dating seriously is when they want to settle down and get married, and usually that’s not what you’re thinking about in high school. I think that dating the same person also ties in with “going out” with someone, or being “together” or in other words being boyfriend and girlfriend. To me there really is no point in high school or even in junior high to have or do those kinds of things. I think its crazy when all these junior high kids have boyfriends and girlfriends when there really is no point cause they are probably just going to break up anyway because its not exactly likely that they will get married in the future.

So for me, when you finally find the one you want to be with the rest of your life you get married to them, of course. In my religion, and in my views when you want to get married, you get married in what we call a temple. Then you have kids and raise a family together. What I have learned from my parents is that even though you’re married; the guy is still courting the girl. So in other words your still go on dates and you still have that alone time where you can enjoy one another’s company without having kids crawl all over you. I think that when you getting married to that you should be married the rest of your life to that one person.

My views on dating and marriage actually fit in pretty well with the culture around me. Because most of my views are based off my religion and what I believe, and because most of the population where I live have the same religion, our views are pretty similar. In high school there actually seems to be a lot of going out and being boyfriend and girl friend, but there is also a lot of group dating and just hanging out. Most of the kids also have the same view on being 16 before you start dating. And it sometimes puts people that don’t agree with that rule at a disadvantage cause most of the people that live here are in agreement with the 16 rule. So people that don’t agree just have to sit and wait for the other person to turn 16 if the want to go on a date with them. Marriage here is pretty close to my idea of marriage too. Most people that are married have kids, and I mean lots of kids usually, hello, we live in Utah. But you will see married couples go on dates still and go out for an evening. Even little old couples and they are the cutest. Usually marriages in my culture last a long time, even until the spouse dies.